NYC Area Only: Are you still a virgin?

Are you over the age of 20 and still hold your "V" card? Were you saving yourself for the perfect guy...and it just never happened? Maybe you come from a religious family and are saving yourself for marriage? Does the topic of sex bring up a flood of questions (the who/what/when, etc)? Are you dating someone and don't know how to tell them you are saving yourself or that you might want that person to be your first? Are you a couple who originally wanted to wait until you were married to seal the deal, but now you're not so sure? No matter what your reason is for being a virgin, we want to hear from you!